Have you ever had the choice between two guys, and you just did not know who to pick? Both of
these guys have good traits that could make them a good option for a boyfriend and bad traits that steer
you away from them, but ultimately, you just can’t decide who, in the end, is a better pick for you. Here
is a step-by-step guide on how to choose between two guys.
The first step is to get to know your standards. Make a list of all the things you want in a partner.
Make sure you include a lot of specific details, both physical and personality. Some good ideas would be
hair color you prefer, height, if you care about their academics, sports they play, or the way they treat
other people. Having high standards will make the decision easier. Prioritize them to make sure you are
putting what is most important to you, since most people won’t fit all your standards. This is a good idea because it helps you further understand the type of person you want in a relationship.
The sec
ond step is getting to know both of the guys you are choosing between. Go on a few dates
with both of them and see how you interact with each other. Try to get a feel for the person they are and
how well you guys connect. Become friends with them and reference the list you made on how well they
fit your standards. Getting to know the two people you are going for is the most important step because
it lets you further understand the person you could be going for next. If they genuinely are the type of
person you would want to spend more time with and be around for a while.
The third step is after you have gotten to know them a little better and have some more
experiences with them, make a pros and cons list for each of them. List everything you like and don’t
like about them and things that would or wouldn’t make them a good fit for you. Make the pros and cons
very specific. Reference moments on your dates and things on the list you made earlier when making
your pros and cons list. This will help you organize their traits more clearly, so you can get a more
organized list of the type of people they are.
The last step is to ask other people who they think you should pick. Get an unbiased opinion and
ask people who you think know you well enough that they will know what person is best for you. This is
important because, oftentimes, people form their own opinions on what they want to see and hear, so
getting an outside perspective can help you see them for the people they are.
This is a step-by-step on choosing the right guy for you. These steps will be very beneficial for
you to make sure you choose the right person to go for next, especially if you have multiple to choose
from. These steps will help you get a better understanding of your choices to help make your decision.
